Comments on: The odd relationships some people have with their parents http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2010/04/08/the-odd-relationships-some-people-have-with-their-parents/ Casting the first stone Wed, 08 Feb 2012 14:19:00 +0200 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Madas http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2010/04/08/the-odd-relationships-some-people-have-with-their-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-221203 Madas Sun, 11 Apr 2010 04:34:56 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1251#comment-221203 Oh my God! GHow are you? I will send you an email to get your phone number. Hhugs! Oh my God!

GHow are you? I will send you an email to get your phone number. Hhugs!

]]> By: Samia http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2010/04/08/the-odd-relationships-some-people-have-with-their-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-221202 Samia Sat, 10 Apr 2010 18:37:44 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1251#comment-221202 Hi there Mariam..Allow me not to comment on this subject, as my intention is to catch up with you!A sheer coincidence led me to your blog, you can't imagine my utter joy, especially since we haven't seen each other in a looong time,!! I'm soooo glad you're doing well, not to comment on the great job you're accomplishing, Allah ya3tiki alf 3afyeh. Are you wondering who am i? it's Samia ( back from highschool ), hope you still remember me!! I'm in Amman& would really like to catch up with you for old times'sake.. Hi there Mariam..Allow me not to comment on this subject, as my intention is to catch up with you!A sheer coincidence led me to your blog, you can’t imagine my utter joy, especially since we haven’t seen each other in a looong time,!! I’m soooo glad you’re doing well, not to comment on the great job you’re accomplishing, Allah ya3tiki alf 3afyeh.
Are you wondering who am i? it’s Samia ( back from highschool ), hope you still remember me!! I’m in Amman& would really like to catch up with you for old times’sake..

]]> By: Madas http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2010/04/08/the-odd-relationships-some-people-have-with-their-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-221201 Madas Fri, 09 Apr 2010 16:39:42 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1251#comment-221201 lol! There are many good blogs in Jordan... seriously. I can send you a list of good blogs :) lol!

There are many good blogs in Jordan… seriously. I can send you a list of good blogs :)

]]> By: Haitham http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2010/04/08/the-odd-relationships-some-people-have-with-their-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-221195 Haitham Thu, 08 Apr 2010 12:42:08 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1251#comment-221195 I did not mean I was impressed by the about page alone, but ur blog is the only professional one in the Jordanian blog-sphere, or at least the only one am aware of! Building ur opinions on solid proofs, and asking people =) professional indeed! Keep it up, your type of blogging is what we need here =) I did not mean I was impressed by the about page alone, but ur blog is the only professional one in the Jordanian blog-sphere, or at least the only one am aware of! Building ur opinions on solid proofs, and asking people =) professional indeed! Keep it up, your type of blogging is what we need here =)

]]> By: Madas http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2010/04/08/the-odd-relationships-some-people-have-with-their-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-221193 Madas Thu, 08 Apr 2010 12:04:10 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1251#comment-221193 I think almost everyone here can relate to Y. if it is not the father then it is the family, if not then it is the tribe, if not then it is the society... I like how people manage to find small spaces of freedom amid all this un-freedom! I think almost everyone here can relate to Y. if it is not the father then it is the family, if not then it is the tribe, if not then it is the society…

I like how people manage to find small spaces of freedom amid all this un-freedom!

]]> By: Madas http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2010/04/08/the-odd-relationships-some-people-have-with-their-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-221192 Madas Thu, 08 Apr 2010 12:02:48 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1251#comment-221192 I had to go back and read the about page to remember what is there. Than you, I will take it as a compliment :) I like what you said... allow me to add strong parents produce very weak children that are not capable of taking decisions.... I had to go back and read the about page to remember what is there.

Than you, I will take it as a compliment :)

I like what you said… allow me to add strong parents produce very weak children that are not capable of taking decisions….

]]> By: Madas http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2010/04/08/the-odd-relationships-some-people-have-with-their-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-221191 Madas Thu, 08 Apr 2010 11:52:27 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1251#comment-221191 Bambam... Harsh... harsh...harsh... I think things are more complex than they seem...relationships with parents are ruled by a mix complex emotions and socio-economical factors. You have the mutual economic need between patents and sons on the one hand. You have a strong tribal and patriarchal system that rules culture and society. You have an unstable political system and lack of freedom and democracy...in other words, people can’t exist alone and need their families... However this mutual need comes with a baggage and sometimes the baggage is too heavy.... I wish we reach a point where people can be emancipated and free... but i don’t see that anywhere in the horizon. Bambam… Harsh… harsh…harsh…

I think things are more complex than they seem…relationships with parents are ruled by a mix complex emotions and socio-economical factors. You have the mutual economic need between patents and sons on the one hand. You have a strong tribal and patriarchal system that rules culture and society. You have an unstable political system and lack of freedom and democracy…in other words, people can’t exist alone and need their families…
However this mutual need comes with a baggage and sometimes the baggage is too heavy….

I wish we reach a point where people can be emancipated and free… but i don’t see that anywhere in the horizon.

]]> By: Hamdanism http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2010/04/08/the-odd-relationships-some-people-have-with-their-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-221190 Hamdanism Thu, 08 Apr 2010 11:39:58 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1251#comment-221190 Very nice blog you have..I like how u expressed ur idea....I can be similar to "Y" somehow.,.but not quite, since I see myself as a human being with a free will and I do exactly what I want (to a certain extent, with certain considerations..) Very nice blog you have..I like how u expressed ur idea….I can be similar to “Y” somehow.,.but not quite, since I see myself as a human being with a free will and I do exactly what I want (to a certain extent, with certain considerations..)

]]> By: Haitham http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2010/04/08/the-odd-relationships-some-people-have-with-their-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-221189 Haitham Thu, 08 Apr 2010 11:33:55 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1251#comment-221189 If they were raised by furious and controlling parents, then they must be conditioned to be ball-less! Very few can recondition themselves, and most of the time, they do because they went through some experience that pushed them to! Madas I had just seen the about page! Way to go Ms. I am really impressed =) If they were raised by furious and controlling parents, then they must be conditioned to be ball-less! Very few can recondition themselves, and most of the time, they do because they went through some experience that pushed them to!

Madas I had just seen the about page! Way to go Ms. I am really impressed =)

]]> By: bambam http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2010/04/08/the-odd-relationships-some-people-have-with-their-parents/comment-page-1/#comment-221187 bambam Thu, 08 Apr 2010 06:25:38 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1251#comment-221187 well i can't blame the parents honestly, some the parenting responsibility falls on the children as well. See growing doesn't stop when you are married or what not it is a continuous process and the children have to bring up their parents and challenge them to be up with the times, they are(mostly) doing what they think is best The other thing that pisses me off about those who complain about their parents is that they don't have the balls to do anything. you don't like the situation your are into? emancipate yourself from and have the balls to take the risk and pay the price of being independent. If you are not willing to do anything about it then you better shut up ... well i can’t blame the parents honestly, some the parenting responsibility falls on the children as well. See growing doesn’t stop when you are married or what not it is a continuous process and the children have to bring up their parents and challenge them to be up with the times, they are(mostly) doing what they think is best
The other thing that pisses me off about those who complain about their parents is that they don’t have the balls to do anything. you don’t like the situation your are into? emancipate yourself from and have the balls to take the risk and pay the price of being independent. If you are not willing to do anything about it then you better shut up …

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