But I still have this issue with the slang Arabic is this a new trend?Seriously, I mean no disrespect, I am noticing that some of our new blogs use spoken for some reason, why is that?

Note: You should write about men’s mistreatment of women, lets start a civil war, I have a couple in mind that I would like to really hurt! Just kidding …? Oh well … you know what i mean!
Thanx

Akh… what can I say about men abusing women? Or trying to subject them? I honestly think that I could write books about it! Let me clarify why I wrote this post.

I work in the charity field .. a world that is dominated (mostly) by women… older women usually. I stumbled upon this world and started seeing the ugly side of charity… older women who are power hungry. Women who have been blinded by money, and foreign aid, and free things that they never prepared anyone to take over after them…. khalas they felt they know everything and will be there forever…

The issue does not end there… some of the women in this field are wicked. The field revolves around backstabbing, ugly competition, mistrust… it is sad because it contradicts everything they supposedly stand for…

In my case, I always could deal with men’s jealousy… but women… I am not sure how disappoint it is to me… when I first started, I was hoping that one of these women would mentor me, but the only thing I found was things like “pay me more to take care of the grant, my price in the market is higher than this” or “ honey, you are too young, I have been working for fifteen years and you will need years to learn what I forgot” ….etc.

Point is… in Amman (other than in other places) competition has reached an ugly place… between women… it is sad and disappointing.

Now, after three years of working more closely with female professionals, I would say polygamy has something to do with it, but that the jealousy and competition goes much farther than marriage/fear of losing man prospects. I feel women have degraded themselves to the very worst of female character detriments in attacking one another to try an elevate themselves. Ugh.

if people focused more on the motivational sides of Envy,be happy for others success and seek own success..the world would be a better place..

and as I grow older “dusting il ghabara off my shoulders”..I tend to like successful women more and more,nothing hotter for me than a woman who knows what she wants in life..knows her potentials and make the best out of em!