Comments on: قصص حب ملخبطة http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2009/12/02/%d9%82%d8%b5%d8%b5-%d8%ad%d8%a8-%d9%85%d9%84%d8%ae%d8%a8%d8%b7%d8%a9/ Casting the first stone Fri, 30 Jul 2010 05:01:22 +0200 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Madas http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2009/12/02/%d9%82%d8%b5%d8%b5-%d8%ad%d8%a8-%d9%85%d9%84%d8%ae%d8%a8%d8%b7%d8%a9/comment-page-1/#comment-220752 Madas Wed, 09 Dec 2009 06:04:40 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1021#comment-220752 media, society, parents... a lot of people are to blame :) media, society, parents… a lot of people are to blame :)

]]> By: Mayyasi http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2009/12/02/%d9%82%d8%b5%d8%b5-%d8%ad%d8%a8-%d9%85%d9%84%d8%ae%d8%a8%d8%b7%d8%a9/comment-page-1/#comment-220751 Mayyasi Wed, 09 Dec 2009 00:01:57 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1021#comment-220751 ery true post actually, i think media is responsible for many of our wrong ideas about love and relationships issues ery true post actually, i think media is responsible for many of our wrong ideas about love and relationships issues

]]> By: Madas http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2009/12/02/%d9%82%d8%b5%d8%b5-%d8%ad%d8%a8-%d9%85%d9%84%d8%ae%d8%a8%d8%b7%d8%a9/comment-page-1/#comment-220733 Madas Sun, 06 Dec 2009 09:29:06 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1021#comment-220733 Ahhh, so the rumours were wrong... But Sarah affected May's relationship with Akkad (I started thinking that May was a bit rigid by the way. It is funny hw we wake up from our illusions in the west. I liked what you said: "A good relationship comes from a combination between having someone you like in and out, him or her feeling the same, and you being ready for such emotional involvement". It is very true. I am not opposed to the idea of people fining their true love. All what i am saying that is that we have more than one true love. for me the disaster if we failt to find any of them, and end up being with somene that our "souls" reject! Anyway... thanks for writing, you gave me some things to think about. Ahhh, so the rumours were wrong… But Sarah affected May’s relationship with Akkad (I started thinking that May was a bit rigid by the way. It is funny hw we wake up from our illusions in the west.

I liked what you said: “A good relationship comes from a combination between having someone you like in and out, him or her feeling the same, and you being ready for such emotional involvement”. It is very true.

I am not opposed to the idea of people fining their true love. All what i am saying that is that we have more than one true love. for me the disaster if we failt to find any of them, and end up being with somene that our “souls” reject!

Anyway… thanks for writing, you gave me some things to think about.

]]> By: Zak http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2009/12/02/%d9%82%d8%b5%d8%b5-%d8%ad%d8%a8-%d9%85%d9%84%d8%ae%d8%a8%d8%b7%d8%a9/comment-page-1/#comment-220732 Zak Sun, 06 Dec 2009 07:34:13 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1021#comment-220732 Thanks for the nice post. Regarding Mr. Akkad, I am not sure that this is the true story. According to what I read, Mr. Akkad met "Sara" once in his life time. He was in Syria in a motel and met a very attractive woman with that name. He couldn't help but to blow her a kiss! (Hard to imagine I know). Then he woke up and realized that this woman might cause him some big trouble since he kissed her in a semi public place. Instead, she was cool about it and told him something like (your mustache pinched me, please trim it a little bit!). He never saw her afterwards, but he wrote a novel in her honor titled (Sara). I agree 100% with th rest of your post. I was raised by my dad as a big believer of platonic love. It is part of our culture that naively associates love with wrong doings and bad reputation (especially for girls). I never woke up from such delusion until I came to the US. There is no Mr. or Ms. right, I believe. A good relationship comes from a combination between having someone you like in and out, him or her feeling the same, and you being ready for such emotional involvement. This theory made me a much more reasonable man in that department, and though I might still believe that someone might find (his one and only love) every now and then, I think that would be an exception we can all dream about occasionally. Thanks for the nice post. Regarding Mr. Akkad, I am not sure that this is the true story. According to what I read, Mr. Akkad met “Sara” once in his life time. He was in Syria in a motel and met a very attractive woman with that name. He couldn’t help but to blow her a kiss! (Hard to imagine I know). Then he woke up and realized that this woman might cause him some big trouble since he kissed her in a semi public place. Instead, she was cool about it and told him something like (your mustache pinched me, please trim it a little bit!). He never saw her afterwards, but he wrote a novel in her honor titled (Sara).

I agree 100% with th rest of your post. I was raised by my dad as a big believer of platonic love. It is part of our culture that naively associates love with wrong doings and bad reputation (especially for girls). I never woke up from such delusion until I came to the US. There is no Mr. or Ms. right, I believe. A good relationship comes from a combination between having someone you like in and out, him or her feeling the same, and you being ready for such emotional involvement. This theory made me a much more reasonable man in that department, and though I might still believe that someone might find (his one and only love) every now and then, I think that would be an exception we can all dream about occasionally.

]]> By: Madas http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2009/12/02/%d9%82%d8%b5%d8%b5-%d8%ad%d8%a8-%d9%85%d9%84%d8%ae%d8%a8%d8%b7%d8%a9/comment-page-1/#comment-220730 Madas Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:07:49 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1021#comment-220730 Writing in Arabic is actually fun! I will start writing in Arabic regularly... I will start by translating random posts, and hopefully will develop my own Arabic content in Arabic... As for soulmate... i think we have many soul mates! and yes you are right, sometimes people do not end up with any of the soulmates. Writing in Arabic is actually fun! I will start writing in Arabic regularly… I will start by translating random posts, and hopefully will develop my own Arabic content in Arabic…

As for soulmate… i think we have many soul mates! and yes you are right, sometimes people do not end up with any of the soulmates.

]]> By: lara http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2009/12/02/%d9%82%d8%b5%d8%b5-%d8%ad%d8%a8-%d9%85%d9%84%d8%ae%d8%a8%d8%b7%d8%a9/comment-page-1/#comment-220729 lara Sat, 05 Dec 2009 20:59:44 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1021#comment-220729 Madas! why did you write in Arabic? actually this Arabic phrasing sounds nothing like you! but what's nice is that I know this story of Rasha :) hehe i'm sure she's very happy now..... "sirt madam" lol remember that? Mish galeeleh hal Mai :) i think there IS a soul mate but you don't always end up with him. And I think that a person is capable of loving more than once.... bas il muhim ma yikoon simultaneous hehe Madas! why did you write in Arabic? actually this Arabic phrasing sounds nothing like you! but what’s nice is that I know this story of Rasha :) hehe i’m sure she’s very happy now….. “sirt madam” lol remember that?

Mish galeeleh hal Mai :) i think there IS a soul mate but you don’t always end up with him. And I think that a person is capable of loving more than once…. bas il muhim ma yikoon simultaneous hehe

]]> By: Madas http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2009/12/02/%d9%82%d8%b5%d8%b5-%d8%ad%d8%a8-%d9%85%d9%84%d8%ae%d8%a8%d8%b7%d8%a9/comment-page-1/#comment-220723 Madas Thu, 03 Dec 2009 16:30:40 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1021#comment-220723 I am not sure i agree at all:) I love the idea of a person for a lifetime... what is wrong with choosing, spending a life time with someone, establishing a family and kids and a house and loving one person for entire life time? why do we fight that? why do we underestimate it? I am not sure i agree at all:) I love the idea of a person for a lifetime… what is wrong with choosing, spending a life time with someone, establishing a family and kids and a house and loving one person for entire life time? why do we fight that? why do we underestimate it?

]]> By: Led Zeppelin http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2009/12/02/%d9%82%d8%b5%d8%b5-%d8%ad%d8%a8-%d9%85%d9%84%d8%ae%d8%a8%d8%b7%d8%a9/comment-page-1/#comment-220721 Led Zeppelin Thu, 03 Dec 2009 16:24:03 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1021#comment-220721 Love! To Choose? To spend a lifetime? To establish something,family,kids? To make the other come 1st? and To hang in there till the end? tough indeed.. Hmmmm...I like the idea of multiple love! one woman for an entire lifetime? scary thought!! Love!
To Choose? To spend a lifetime? To establish something,family,kids? To make the other come 1st? and To hang in there till the end? tough indeed..

Hmmmm…I like the idea of multiple love! one woman for an entire lifetime? scary thought!!

]]> By: Madas http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2009/12/02/%d9%82%d8%b5%d8%b5-%d8%ad%d8%a8-%d9%85%d9%84%d8%ae%d8%a8%d8%b7%d8%a9/comment-page-1/#comment-220717 Madas Wed, 02 Dec 2009 20:08:18 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1021#comment-220717 انا متأكدة انه يوجد حب حقيقي، و أجد انه من الغريب ان تقول انه لا تعرف أحد قد جرب الحب الحقيقي. و لكن انا اعتقد انه يصعب قياسه، و بالتالي يصعب المقارنه بين احاسيس اشخاص مختلفين. انا متأكدة انه يوجد حب حقيقي، و أجد انه من الغريب ان تقول انه لا تعرف أحد قد جرب الحب الحقيقي. و لكن انا اعتقد انه يصعب قياسه، و بالتالي يصعب المقارنه بين احاسيس اشخاص مختلفين.

]]> By: MC http://madas.jordanplanet.org/2009/12/02/%d9%82%d8%b5%d8%b5-%d8%ad%d8%a8-%d9%85%d9%84%d8%ae%d8%a8%d8%b7%d8%a9/comment-page-1/#comment-220716 MC Wed, 02 Dec 2009 19:27:42 +0000 http://madas.jordanplanet.org/?p=1021#comment-220716 هُو أمر مُتقلّب تقلّب القَلب رُبّما. وحسب القَلب يكون. فقد تَقضي امرأة عُمراً في حُبّ شَخص، حتّى وإن كان لا يُقدّر هذا، وقَد تظنّ أنّها أحبّت كُلّ من تلقاه. هل يوجد حُبّ حقيقي فِعلاً؟ لا أدري ولا أعرِف أحداً اختَبَره. هُو أمر مُتقلّب تقلّب القَلب رُبّما. وحسب القَلب يكون.
فقد تَقضي امرأة عُمراً في حُبّ شَخص، حتّى وإن كان لا يُقدّر هذا، وقَد تظنّ أنّها أحبّت كُلّ من تلقاه.

هل يوجد حُبّ حقيقي فِعلاً؟
لا أدري ولا أعرِف أحداً اختَبَره.

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